Red flags in dating a man
Then his boss lies about when he showed up to work, said he was in a meeting…
If you still feel like your guy is shady, then he might be worth leaving.
The thing is, a lot of women are conditioned from a young age to accept these red flags as normal. If he gossips about information you’d rather not share, touches you when you don’t want it, or tries to push you into things you don’t want to do… If you do, you’re only setting yourself up for heartbreak and frustration later on down the road.
Did you ever have a boy tease you on the playground relentlessly, only to be told that he was “just teasing you because he likes you”? He starts arguments and fights, and not just with you.
If you let yourself stick around that negativity it will affect your own vibe, bringing your own mood down and leaving you feeling drained and unhappy. If you have long-time friends voicing “red flags” about a guy, listen to them. Sometimes it’s really hard to see something negative going on in your relationship when your own emotions are caught up in it.
If he’s too busy for you, there’s probably a reason for that.