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He looked about 30, and if you’re into Jeffrey Wright or Drake, this man would have definitely caught your eye.On our first date, I brought out the “36 Questions to Fall in Love With Anyone” app.

What I neglected to see was that I identified with him. As a sorrowful figure who woke up into a mess with no clear solution, my drifting midlife crisis yoked well with his whole-life crisis. ”I realized that I was sloshing around in too much resentment. Then I decided to accept that my desires could remain like a thousand-piece puzzle still in the box, unassembled.

By Valentine’s Day, the current of political resistance had pushed me to the edge.

After that breakup, I vowed to never make a submissive deal for love again.

There was a gray hair invading my afro-pompadour, sneering, I had a “survival job” in government communications where getting boss approval on anything was like facing the powerful final opponent in a martial-arts movie. “Senior”-titled Elon Musk admirers who wanted to be treated like heads of state.

They wanted a full program of cock-centric sex, custody days with their soccer-loving kids, and nights with their power-nerd friends who would not let me play the tortured Amy Winehouse songs.